Thank you for the book citation and your remarks! Greatly appreciated! You just made me realize one important thing- when we think of something, have this thought in our head (in our writings or in real life) it doesn’t mean that we communicate it clearly. When writing the article, in my head the thought “appreciate your partner” was with actions, not just as an internal state of appreciation. I sooo agree with you! Saying “thank you,” “I love you,” “that was great,” and all the things we think or feel but don’t say daily makes a big difference in our relationship and well-being.