Hi Ron, first I want to thank you for stopping by and leaving a comment. But I am not sure I agree with you- to praise people for their positive and proactive behavior is a good thing and I feel we all need to do more of it routinely. What makes you think though that men are accused of having a mental illness? Yes, there are people out there who use stereotypes, but there are also a whole lot of us who use a different language and way of thinking on this subject.